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And it’s one worth writing about in a full blog post rather than a quick Q&A. As I began weaving my own personal blowjob journey with all the advice I’ve received over the years, I realized this is actually a really vulnerable subject. But I am someone who has been in your shoes (and, from the sounds of it, we both have big teeth).

If either one of these events hadn’t happened, I don’t think I would be the person I am today.Ĭrazy shit, right? I hope this answered your questions (and then some).įirst, I want to make it clear that I am not a sex coach. The gloriousness of one helped the horribleness of the other, and visa versa. The interesting thing for me is that my spontaneous night at the nudist party and my HIV diagnosis worked in tandem together. We have to form new habits in order to hold on to these new insights.

If we don’t take action after experiencing something so profoundly wonderful, then we could slowly lose all that inspiration over time. But it can still be a little tricky to hold on to all those life-changing layers because it isn’t so life-interfering. When it comes to a positive profound experience, we are lucky in that we don’t have to figure out ways to cope or heal. I connected with a couple of others who had been through it themselves. I distanced myself from other negative emotional triggers. For my HIV experience, I took a lot of steps in order to properly cope with it. So, it’s not only how we define a profound experience, but what we do with it after. Meanwhile, I have seen HIV diagnoses take perfectly good people and pull them down dark paths of drugs and alcohol abuse. I got very lucky in that my awful HIV diagnosis made me want to compensate for the unkind and selfish person I had been before. Unfortunately, I have seen some real-life examples of how profound experiences can take us to terrible places. The Joker? He was abused by his parents, became a failed comedian, and then fell into a vat of bleach. Venom? He was a reporter whose career was ruined (by Spiderman). But as nearly all superhero movies have taught us, the supervillains usually go rogue after they’ve had some horribly profound experience. I’d like to believe that even the worst life events would always change us for the better. Alas, I don’t think profound experiences often tend to be as exciting and fun as discovering nudism. Rather, a profound experience is any kind of event that can change layer upon layer of who we are as a human being. It doesn’t have to be classified as good or bad (as it can be either of those). It gave me a desire and thirst to experience other things in life that scared me.Īnd I think that right there is what sums up a profound experience. It made me view friendship and camaraderie differently. It made me view the concept of vulnerability differently. And to describe the experience requires so many details (and lots of jokes, of course) that a Q&A, or even a blog post, could not do it justice.īut I will say this: that night changed my life forever on so many levels. I wrote a whole chapter about it in my book because. well. it was not only wildly eye-opening, but also pretty fucking hilarious.

I would say the most profound emotional experience I ever had prior to my HIV diagnosis was the time my friend tricked me into going to a nudist BBQ. Which now begs a different question: what even qualifies as a profound experience? And what happens after you have one? Profound emotional experiences don't just come from the bad things in life, they can come from the good things as well. And then I realized that was totally stupid. to answer this question, my brain started flipping through its emotional index of the terrible things I had ever been through.